“Many people spend more time in planning the wedding than they do in planning the marriage” - Zig Ziglar

the more and more i hear about weddings from brides it makes me want to never have one. don't get me wrong, this girl wants to, er, is dying to get married... i just don't want to have a wedding... not even a little wedding. okay well maybe a little wedding, but i seriously want like 20 people, thats it. and i want it to be simple. i dont want to be a bridezilla. i dont want to be a snob about my wedding. i don't care if my wedding isn't as fabulous as "so and so's". i dont need that. i want MAYBE one brides maid, no maid of honors; just seems so segregated. i dont want to put one friend on a pedestal... all my friends are important. i used to want the traditional wedding, so badly... but now, i don't want one at all. even the sweetest of girls turn into brats when it comes to their wedding... which i dont understand at all (probably because i've never planned/had a wedding)... hell! its a party for your FRIENDS! hosted by you! why does that need to cost $20,000?!?!? AND to start a new life off in SERIOUS debt??? i would much rather have something to show for it, other than a picture album and maybe a video. i guess the memories are sweet... but hell... i'd rather take some crazy awesome vacation and remember that than remember this awesome party where all my friends drank and ate over priced food that i had to put on a credit card and will be paying off for the next 13 years. nooooooooooooooooooooo thanks. alright... thats enough. all i'm saying is... at this time; a wedding is probably not in my future... hopefully a marriage is, but not a wedding.